Today I want to get yall fools opinion on mate selection, particularly on the question of whether to wife a trophy chick or a good chick. The question breaks down into do you want a women that looks good or a women that is good for you?
Now all men, no matter how good your relationship with your girlfriend or wifey is, are tempted by the trophy chick. I would even say, the majority of guys would cheat on their wifey for their dream trophy chick. I know if Ester Baxter was hollarin’ for a one night stand, I would suspend my relationship coverage with my girl for an hour or two (hopefully she doesn’t read this and if she does that was just a lie). I, however, wouldn’t wife Ester Baxter as I do not know if she would be a good match for me, though I’m sure she would make a fine wifey (I hope Ester’s reading this). Simply put, the trophy chick is what we all aspire to have on a purely sexual attraction basis. It is nothing more than a physical thing and is as if our penis had full reign of our decision making process -which is similar to how we acted during puberty.
Now the good chick, on the other hand, is someone who you are still physically attracted too, but not as much as the trophy chick. The good chick, however, has additional qualities that the trophy chick does not have. These qualities can include things like good personality, someone you get along with, intelligence, would make for a good mother, a good wife, a good cook, whatever. Just know they cannot be your dream girl on a purely physical basis, because the overwhelming majority of dudes can’t bag a trophy chick (Damn that Jay-Z for that Beyonce pull -though I have suspicion Beyonce is a friggen weirdo). Now having a choice between these two types, which one would you choose?
I personally, would choose, the good chick. Not only because I have a good chick now, but because like I said in my previous post about successful relationships that having a good women in your life will lead to you becoming successful in all other parts of your life. You see something strange happens when you have the right chick in your life, I hate to say this, but you have something to live for in a sense. I’m sure you’ve all heard the saying, “behind every strong man, is an even stronger women” (is that how it goes?). The gist of this axiom is that men really live for women and that they ultimately inspire us to achieve greatness.
In the last G-Unit mixtape, Return of the Bodysnatches, Tony Yayo (of all people) on the track,
“Make Me Feel Good” says, “The cars, the foreign cars, European cars, the jewelry, the big homes, we do all this shit for the b!tches if you think about it, from the shape up to the sneakers” And it’s true. We wouldn’t get fly for other guys that’s just ghey, we do it for the women. We all want to get our mama out the hood, we all want to take our down girl from the hood and put them up in mansions and give them crazy shopping sprees. If you have a good girl, she will be the source for your motivation that makes you push yourself to do better. Find a girl that doesn’t inspire you and the opposite will be true.
But what do you degenerates think?